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Torchlight Story Circle
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The Good Thing Jar
One small note a day about something good, folded into a jar.
Two minutes a day, and in three months you have a jar full of a year they would otherwise have forgotten.
What you need
- a jar or box
- small pieces of paper
- a pen
How to do it
- Decorate a jar together and put it somewhere visible.
- Each evening, everyone writes one good thing from that day on a slip of paper.
- It must be specific. Not a nice day, but the bit where the dog fell in the pond.
- Fold it and drop it in without reading it aloud.
- Open the whole jar together on the last day of the month.
Why this is good for them
Being required to find one specific good detail changes what a child notices during the day, not just what they report at the end of it. Keeping the notes private until the end of the month also stops it becoming a performance for the adult.
Adapting by age
4 to 5 yearsThey draw it, or dictate it to you.
11 to 12 yearsAdd a second jar for things that were hard and what helped.
Keep it safe
None needed.
Cleanup tip
None.
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